MENAGE A TROIS
me about the first time you can remember being thrilled.
1.A as a kid on a helter skelter.
been your most frightening thrill ever?
from an aircraft alone.
the smallest or slightest thing to have thrilled you?
3.A being in
a lift with a stranger, the touch of silk, milk, sun on my skin.
me why you're not a sensible person.
4.A see above.
were you doing the last time you were really bored?
the most uninhibited thing you've ever done?
6.A oh god
there's so many....probably fucking (on a busy) Gatwick Express.
things have you considered doing for thrill, but were too concerned about
7.A heavy drugs.
always dreamt about being a paramedic, driving an ambulance and saving
lives; what about you?
To answer these next 14 questions, you should
think about a particular time you were thrilled.
this thrill in a nutshell, in one sentence. (there's time to expand later)
and when did it take place?
London flat, 1986
me a bit about yourself around this time.
11.A just married,
permanently horny and a risk taker
did the moment arise? Was it planned?
12.A no, at
least not overtly
the sequence of events leading up to your thrill, and how you felt at
each stage. The smallest detail could be important (this is your chance
13.A we were
drinking: me, him and her, consoling her after a break up. we went back
to the one bedroom beautiful apartment, overlooking the city and
started to play..
the exact moment of thrill, how did your mind and body feel?
14.A like every
sense was stimulated, like every fibre of my body was involved, like my
mind was filled to capacity, like I'd been waiting all my life for this
thoughts were going through your mind?
15.A not so
much thoughts as sensations...of sensual, sexual pleasure
did you do immediately afterwards?
were the most likely things that could have put you off going through
nothing, apart from someone else arriving - it was about us three not
were other people important to your thrill?
18.A they were,
at the time two people I was intimately entwined with emotionally.
do you imagine other people were thinking throughout your thrilling episode?
19.A Husband :"Fuck I'm so lucky"
Her: "I can't believe I'm doing this.."
people probably don't understand how such a thing can thrill you; could
you explain it to them?
20.A Its not
about the act its about the combination of people (like with any sex).
Sometimes an experience is thrilling because of the time, the place, the
psychological and physiological state of the people involved, and of course,
the amount of alcohol consumed
were certain objects or equipment important to your thrill?
21.A they were
not. But good champagne helped the ambience, as did being in the centre
of London, overlooking busy streets, possibly observable
you've done something like this before, how does the last time compare
to the first time you did it?
22.A this was
the first - subsequent re-runs did not compare
you did it again, what things could be added or changed to make it even
wouldn't. I am old and restrained now and would worry about consequences,
a word that didn't figure in my life at that time
Is there anything you want to add?